happy new year,
to day i am so mad at my husband. i asked him to use the atm to get money for out day out and today i see he took out the agreeded on amount but also took out more fromthe savings. i know the savings money is him and i should not be mad but i am hurt that he did this behind my back and i am broken.
this year we have had a hard time finding the best ways to live in this new to us city. we are living paycheck to pay check. and he is waisting $1100. a month. minuse the cost of life insurance. and in november and december he has taker the atm card out of my wallet with out my knowledge. his not helping my pay the bills and just being part of our family hurts me. it is not posable for my to make him do anything. and i want him to hep my make and stick to a budget. as it is i am responsable for our joint checkning account. but i am not trusted with our real money issues when i brouch the subject of money he tells me he contrbuted 2grand to out bills and is not giving more.
i wish he would just GET IT